So, it's April, and the girls are already talking about Santa Claus. I tried to explain that Santa won't be coming until December which is 8 months away. For a 2-year old and 4-year old, this is difficult to grasp.
I love the idea of Santa Claus! The idea that no matter what, every child has a good heart and deserves a gift at Christmas time. Every child deserves to be thought of and loved, every day, but especially at Christmas. And to me, that's what Santa represents. I did a ton of volunteering in high school and our church always did a Giving Tree. You took a paper ornament off of the Christmas tree and bought one of the gifts listed for a child whose parent(s) couldn't afford it. One year, I helped deliver those gifts and the look on the kids' faces, the sheer happiness, was something I will always remember.
I want my children to believe in this idea too and for them that's represented in Santa Claus. It's something they can "see" which is much easier for a child to understand. Princess asks a ton, A TON of questions every year at Christmas (well, really all year long, but especially about Santa).
One year we bought toys to donate and she just didn't understand why we would need to buy toys for other kids since Santa brings them. It was this year that we instituted the "Santa brings one toy" rule in our home. As in, I've told our child that there are so many kids in the world, and since every child gets a toy, Santa can only bring one toy to every child, so that's what we're going to do. And then I went on to tell her, that not all parents can afford to buy toys for their kids and wouldn't it be nice if they each got two toys, so sometimes other parents help to buy those toys.
Next up, the mall Santas. Princess noticed that there were two different Santas at two different malls. I didn't feel right about telling her that one was fake and one was real, so we went with they're all fake. Because obviously Santa is too busy making toys for all of the boys and girls that he can't really go to every mall. So these "friends" of Santa's dressed up like him, came to the malls for pictures, and then took their wishes back to Santa so they would get what they wanted for Christmas. One day, I'm sure all of this will backfire on us.
Today was a close one. I was totally thrown when she asked why elves are short and how do they grow bigger. Um, they don't??? They're just like that, they're short? Hopefully she'll let that one slide and not ask again. Ha! Then we again talked about Santa's friends at the mall and she said "maybe that's why that old guy was smelly because he had rubber on him. You know because he was dressed up as Santa!" That one made me giggle. Mouse chimed in by informing us all that Santa will be bringing her a Princess towel (Tanta Caus bing pincess towel). And no, she does not want one when/if we go to Disney World, Santa will be bringing it!